“DECIDING WHERE TO BUILD”

Matthew 7: 21-29               

Whenever a person decides to buy a piece of property, or to consult a Realtor about property, that person is told the three most important words for a building site or a property purchase are location, location, location.  A business or a Church that is in the right location will be a success, even when it is not run quite as well as it could be.  Likewise, a business or a Church in a poor location will have difficulty in growing, even when it is run very well.  Our Church is a graphic example of this reality. It was in 1913 that a location for the Squamish Presbyterian Church was selected.  It was very close to where we are at this very minute. Though a merger of the Canadian Methodist, Congregationalists and most of the Presbyterians had become a reality in 1925, it was not until 1927, that the Squamish Presbyterian Church became the Squamish United Church.  This was a good location, due to the fact that many of the members lived in the immediate area of the Church buildings.  Now, 92 years later, the demographics of Squamish are shifting, and we find ourselves like those years ago, having to determine what location is best for this Church to be a strong and serving fellowship.

This is a very difficult decision to make, because the attitudes of the public have shifted. No longer can members of a Church expect that people will come simply because the Church is there, or that people moving here who were reared in a United Church elsewhere will attend the Church affiliation of their former years. No longer can we assume that people who come to Church come with a religious memory. The truth is that most people have grown up with little if any exposure to Christianity other than what they see or hear, and much of that leaves a negative impact on young people. No longer do the groups and clubs of society reflect the teachings or attitudes of the Christian Church.  We are a secular society now, by and large. Christians who practice their faith regularly are a minority. Churches are not necessarily the place where people go to have weddings. More funerals are held in funeral chapels and halls than in Churches and more and more funerals are void of any religious overtones.

People seeking a meeting space or some mysterious blessing over an event often seek the services of the Church for Baptism, marriage or burial. Often, these requesters can’t even give a rational reason for the request. Frequently, they resent any requirements of the Church.  Many people seek to rent Churches for a particular activity, and treat the organist, minister and in some cases the choir as if they are “hired hands” rather than people in ministry.  I, for one, simply will not marry a couple who come and ask me to preside at their wedding, but also request, please do not say anything religious or about God. I am a Christian minister, and I find such a request insulting. If they don’t want any mention of God, then they don’t need me to preside.

Commenting on this reality, two scholars from Duke University in North Carolina, Stanley Hauerwas and William Willimon, wrote a book called “Resident Aliens.”  This book talks about the alien status of Christians in today’s world and the impact that a secular culture has had in making the Church an “Alien group” in a secular world. In choosing to be Christians, we are aliens to the predominant social attitudes.  In short, we find ourselves in a culture not unlike that of the days of Jesus.  To his culture, Jesus proclaimed the words we know as “The Sermon on the Mount.” It is a body of teaching found in the gospels and in today’s text from the International Lectionary, in the book of Matthew, chapters 5, 6 and 7. In this body of material you will find the beatitudes, a host of powerful and difficult admonitions, the Lord’s prayer and as you heard Jim read this morning, it ends with words dealing with building foundations.

Jesus is forcing us as individuals and as a community of faith to examine the strength of the foundations upon which we are building our faith and His Church in this secular culture. In short, we are being asked about location, location, location.  Whenever we witness natural disasters, we see the importance of strong foundations. It is not surprising that when earthquakes, winds and floods occur, one can quickly see why some homes remain intact, while others are easily destroyed.  Foundations are funny things: they are seen the least and they take the longest to build, yet scrimp on the foundation and no matter how impressive the structure may appear, it will not stand against the ravages of nature. I remember, many years ago, standing at the construction site of the Union Bank building in Los Angeles. The building was to become the tallest building in LA at that time. Standing on the sidewalk and looking through the screen, it seemed as if the workers and the earth moving machines were far below the surface, which, of course they were.  Far under the surface, I later read, concrete was poured  in even deeper holes, huge springs were installed and thousands of pounds of concrete, metal and supports were built before the building even attained ground level. All this was necessary if 70 stories were to be supported safely in this land of many earthquakes. Last year, when we were there, it was still standing in its place, a testimony to the  strong foundation.

That is exactly the way life is, and that is also the way religious institutions are. Every city in our world has within it huge, beautiful cathedral buildings. Thought, at building time, to represent that which was strong, reliable and enduring, they now find themselves still structurally strong, but in the wrong location.  No longer do the people who found their strength and their inspiration from such imposing structure live within their shadow. Gone is the era where daily observance and even participation is seen in these liturgical giants.  Now, most people live away from the heart of a city. Homes have become the signature of wealth and public acceptance and the inner cities with their wealth of buildings and resources now claim, in most cases, the homeless, the poor and the troubled as their residents: residents, who in many cases have been unable to cope with the demands of society. The suburbs, on the other hand are filled with people who have chosen large homes to the maximum of their ability to purchase; they spend their time commuting to the areas of work still situated where workers used to live. In what little time is left, parents hurl themselves into a host of activities to be with their children and to keep them occupied. The result is that their lives are shallow, and there is no room, time or money for building lives with strong religious foundations or a great Church building to aid in that pursuit.

Where once great edifices were erected to lift the spirit and challenge the soul, now, multipurpose buildings are built to accommodate harried congregations. Worship is geared to what I would call an entertaining mode. Gone, in many instances is the sense of wonder, awe and mystery; gone is the sense that this is something very important. We have sold out our values and emphasis to accommodate people’s other schedules and thus have lost our feeling of significance. Marriages are lost, families are fragmented, social ethics are compromised, all victims to social status and image.  No wonder society is floundering, searching for a foundation. We are much too busy looking for wealth and fame. We revere people who have achieved this level; no matter how unscrupulous has been their climb to achieve notoriety. Our value standards are so colored that we evaluate the worth of folks by the houses in which they live, the cars they drive, the vacations they take and the recreational establishments they frequent.

We have elevated people in the performing areas of life, movies, musicians, and athletes to a status where they are paid far more than teachers, research scientists or people in the healing arts. Artists, musicians, poets and writers who inspire and enrich our lives struggle from meal to meal for the most part. In the process, the troubled and unfortunate in our society are not only forgotten, they are shunned as worthless, because- for whatever reason- they are not part of the value system society has shown as important.  We are a society gone mad in “looking out for number 1," which not coincidentally, is the title of a best selling book in the endless line of books about positive thinking and the concept that you can be whatever you want to be, others be damned.

Psychology has been geared to helping people find themselves and, in many cases people have found themselves, but it has not resulted in major personality or conduct changes. People tend to understand why they act as they do, but they still continue in their destructive actions.  Dr. William Glasser began teaching a new theory of counselling in 1965; it was called Reality Therapy. To put it simply, the aim is to help a person to find out what he or she perceives to be inappropriate or destructive behaviour, and then be involved in making specific workable plans to reconnect to society and people in a constructive manner. In other words a choice has to be made and a plan implemented.

Jesus had a process that was even more radical. Forget all the “finding yourself” theories. To live victoriously, Jesus said to his disciples and the crowd that had gathered: “whoever would save his life will lose it; and whoever loses his life for my sake and the gospels will save it. For what does it profit one to gain the whole world and forfeit his life? What can a person give in return for his life?” (Mark 8: 35-37)

How powerful! Forget trying to understand who you are and why. Forget dwelling on the inadequacies of your parents, or the impact of bad toilet training.  Lose yourself in the purpose of Christ, and you will find yourself. When you lose yourself in the cause of Christ, self-destructive habits cease. There will be an end to excuses like, I had too much religion thrust at me as a youth, I don’t want it anymore. Too bad! My grandmother nearly drove me nuts with her insistence that I wash my hands frequently, but that doesn’t mean that I no longer wash my hands.

Lose yourself in the cause of Christ and you will be more loving, more forgiving, more serving, more happy, and less angry and less judgmental than most in society.  None of us will do it perfectly, we are people, and people err, but the chances are you will be far ahead of those who seek all the latest gimmicks that skirt religious conviction in the attempt to understand why they do what they do. Our society is full of those who understand what they do, but they still do it.  The great American preacher Harry Emerson Fosdick once said, “always find a cause bigger than yourself and go to it."  But we find our society is terrified of failure. We are not content to do our best, we want to win; now. By that standard, Jesus was a failure. For Christians, his death was a victory.

That is where you and I are to build our lives; on that strong foundation where the storms and the floods of life, that will come, cannot overcome us.  Beloved, that is our ministry. We are to share the message of Jesus Christ our Lord in such a manner that people will respond in service, love and acceptance of others. When others see the joy of a fulfilled life and the ability of a person of faith to overcome all obstacles without resorting to artificial means, the Kingdom comes.  If we love our Lord, and seek to be his followers, then this entire community will be elevated. People will respect us when we do not bow down to the latest fad, or try gimmicks to get people excited. We will be building the Kingdom when we are true to the teachings of Jesus, tough as they are, and encourage others to share in that lifestyle. Those who seek to find themselves will lose themselves, but those who lose themselves in the cause of Christ and the gospels will find themselves. This is our calling. This is our reason for being. This is our ministry to Squamish. Let us be faithful. Amen.
Dr. Doug Lobb.
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