BELONGING!



 Matthew 11 30  Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.  For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.


Can you hear Handel's music as this is read?  Jesus was giving an illustration that was very familiar to his hearers.  This was the custom of Jesus, to use things people understood, to help them know the message that he had for them.  Of course, its something we know a lot less about!  But let's spend a few minutes here before moving on to things that we are more familiar with.

Jesus was a carpenter's son.  Carpenters are familiar with all the wood which is used in our homes and for our furniture.  He had probably made many yokes for the oxen of the local farmers.  He'd rough out the basic shape, try it on the animal, measure it again, and smooth it.  Jesus knew that if the yoke fitted well, the ox would work much more easily.

How can this help us?  God has given each one of us things to do- jobs and positions to fit our abilities.  But let's go further than this.  Wearing a yoke implies there is a farmer guiding where the plough has to go, leading in the right direction and at the right speed.  The animal with the yoke belongs to the farmer.  He's not wandering around aimlessly with nothing to do (when oxen were threshing the grain, they were not muzzled, and could eat freely).

Belonging is important to many of us, for our well-being.  I think of Clyde Narramore, a man that the British navy sent to Iceland.  Many men had been sent home.  The strain of the life abroad had caused sickness.  But Clyde was a Christian, and a friend had written to the local church to tell them that he was being stationed there.  One night, soon after his arrival, there was a knock at his door.  A couple from the local church introduced themselves, and invited him to both their services and their home.  What a difference this made!  Deep friendships formed, and although the climate, language and traditions were different, Christianity was the same; life seemed worth living with friends behind him.
Belonging to God's family made the difference between health and suffering, friendship and loneliness.  It was a "job made to measure" in an unlikely place.

My own experience on first coming to Canada also illustrates this point.  I came as an exchange teacher.  On the first Sunday, I attended the local United Church in Port Moody.  Friends were ready made in this strange land!  Even my supervisor was a Christian, and made me welcome in her home on several occasions.  Belonging made the difference between an interesting experience and one that I really enjoyed, and which resulted in a permanent move three years later.

Of course, everything doesn't always go "swimmingly."  There are rough places, things don't go smoothly, and the yoke can be a burden.  I wonder if an animal chganges shape with the passing years?  Is an adjustment needed?  The job that Christ gave us when we were 20 years old is not the same as that given to us at 40 or 60 years of age.  This can be scary, for time passes, and opportunities can be lost for ever.  So grasp them, and act on them!  We can rarely go back and complete a task that is left undone, but hopefully the experience will stir us to grasp the next opportunity.

In Romans 1 6, we find "You are also among those who are called to belong to Jesus Christ."  Jesus is our friend, someone who knows alla bout us- our failures and faults, our strengths and achievements.  He loves us anyway.  Jesus knows what it's like to be human, with all its love, heartache, joy and sorrow.  The centre of our faith is not a philosophy, but a person; not an idol like the smiling, cold Buddha, but someone who has loved and suffered.

You probably know more about farm animals than I do- I certainly am ignorant about the oxen of Jesus' time.  The nearest I could think of were the guide dogs who are trained to lead the blind.  When they wear their harness, they know that they are "on duty," and are responsible to lead their owner.  The harness is not a burden, but a "tool of the trade."  Like sails to a yacht, they are not a burden, but the equipment needed to move the boat.

John Wesley wrote in his journal of a meeting that he had with his helpers: "We endeavoured to increase each others knowledge, and encourage one another to love and good works."  That's what our Lord's yoke does for us.  With the gift of the Holy Spirit to help us, we are enabled to live just as God wants us to.

How do we help our church to grow?  Not by forming an extra committee!  By inviting others to special events and ordinary services?  By just being God's followers in our daily actions, showing that fear of the future and of death is needless.

You don't have to accept everything that is said from this pulpit.  But just being here can help us live more nearly to Jesus.  Looking at the cross reminds us that he died for us- you and me.  A look at the lit candle reminds us that Jesus is the light of the world.  Jesus is our light, to help us live through another week.  Our church is not just a friendly place to spend a pleasant hour on a Sunday morning.  Maybe here you will find strength to face this next week, and maybe the new direction to go if you must change.

Being in this congregation today means you belong.  Let us avoid criticism, for this destroys.  We can encourage, appreciate, compliment, and listen, for we all belong to God's family.

I appreciate the articles that Keith Howard writes in the "Observer."  A few years ago, he wrote about being able to recognize God's presence in our lives.  During a walk, his wife would recognize a bird, though only seeing a glimpse of it, or hearing its song.  He was full of admiration, and realized it had taken time and practice.  So it is with God's presence.  "As Christians, we must make the bold claim that God is on the loose in this spiritual world.  Those seeking an experience of God may not be suffering from the lack of the experience of God in their lives, but from a need for people to walk and talk with those who know the terrain."

In services like this, we find an opportunity for awareness of God- through the music of the prelude or a hymn.  We listen and hopefully will be able to understand what he's saying to us.  God doesn't necessarily speak through eartquake, wind or fire- or even the still small voice of calm.

So, you'd like an experience of God?  He's not much on delivery by demand, but let's talk over coffee, after the service!  We can all listen for our next step, once we belong!
Christine Tribe.   

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